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Old Jul 26, 2012, 01:01 AM   #4156
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Be.aquamarine: niat abis ya nyokap dan tante2 loe. Pasti heboh banget deh waktu itu. Gw kebayangnya mereka dah rapih pake baju pesta, sanggul, make up tp ditangannya fully loaded with perkakas wedding bed. Ngakak abis....
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gw blom berasa bridezilla syndrome nih... Padahal lumayan control freak dan cukup banyak yg blom beres. Sumthing wrong with me kah?

Rain: gw hanimun malah 1 minggu setelah hari-h. Ada ultah nyokap dan mau pindahan juga sih. Temen2 gw malah suggest utk hanimunnya ga langsung loh! Biar cape-nya pesta ga kebawa pas hanimun sehingga hanimunnya bisa maksimal
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Old Jul 26, 2012, 01:08 AM   #4157
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salza: sama2 h-2 bulan dunk kita, n sama2 700 undangan.. tapi undangan g baru jadi awal sept, g terlalu santai di awalnya.. sekarang baru kejar2in org finalize decor,wo,gaun gw, souvenir,dkk.. G nyesel bgt ga ambil wedding planner, secara sifat co gw n gw sama2 terlalu santai n penunda ampe deadline
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(((( tapi untungnya mid of aug, g mutusin buat resign n fokus beresin keterlambatan gw... semangat girls, few mths to go... !!!! planning honeymoon salah satu penyemangat gw kalo g uda mulai down n mellow...
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Old Jul 26, 2012, 01:16 AM   #4158
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cres, lo mah bener2 penganten preman.. hari H aj masi niat ngajak brantem ortu.. hihi... peace... udah cantik2 yang penting senyum cres walaupun dalem hati gedeg mampus...

yang lg PMS H-2bln semangat!!! jd inget gw hrs tanya alamat temen2 sma gw... haha
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Old Jul 26, 2012, 01:17 AM   #4159
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kodokhijau : sanggulan tapi fully loaded
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gue hunimun lgs H+1 lho, soalnya sama camer ga bole pulang kerumah sampe 3hr
drpd gue nginep di hotel jkt, mendingan gue lgs ngacir aja deh ke bali buat rilex
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Old Jul 26, 2012, 01:25 AM   #4160
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Kodokhijau, ah hanimun gw pan leyeh2 di bali... Drpd di jakarta kan? Lbh capek lg. Mkgn mksdnya hanimun yg jalan2 ikut tur kali... Itu sih gw ogah juga... Nanti2 saja hehehehehehe... H+1 minggu okelah. Sempet napas
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Fenn, semangatttt! Gw jg lbh semangat ama hanimunnya yg uda 90% planned hueheheheheh.... Gw masih H-5 bulan pdhl
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Old Jul 26, 2012, 01:34 AM   #4161
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haha rain ayok beres2in.. biar kaga kena panic attack di h-2.. btw g sempet baca pada sempet mimpi2 aneh ya soal wedding di page sebelumnya.. kemaren2 g baca, berasa lucu.. cuma akhirnya g ngerasainn , uda 2 kali g mimpii soal wedding gw.. cm g samar2 ingetnyaaa... nite all, moga2 mlm ini gak mimpiin soal wedding lg..
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Old Jul 26, 2012, 09:16 AM   #4162
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Rain: tengkyu
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#peluk balikk
Kodokhijau: bgs dehh kl ga berasa syndrome h-2bln..tdny gw jg ga berasa..eh pas co gw ngasi selamat anniversary plus blg h-2bln, r u ready? Br deh tuh kepikiran uda tgl 2 bln yakkkk #tepuk jidat

Gw hanimun h+3 jd sempet beres2, balikin gown dll..ke bali juga biar bs leyeh2 santei..ud beli tiket pegi+hotel..tiket pulang blomannn..co gw mpe blg ga mau plg yaa?
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Old Jul 26, 2012, 11:00 AM   #4163
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rain gue end of september emang pemberkatan. H-2bulan jg.
disini pada gelisah baju nyokap lom jadi, lah, bokap gue aja lom punya jas?

bokap diajak ngomong sangjit/tepai ama mak gue ga mao. standar bokap gue either gak didengerin, ato bentak2 motong orang ngomong.
adek gue rada2 'putus asa' kemaren msg gue di fb. dia ajak bokap ke metro buat milih jas yg jadi aja. bokap cemberut, katanya apaan tuh barangnya banyak n berderet2, bikin pusing.
diseret adek gue ke G2000, udah gak ada size.
ke banana republic, kegombrongan.
mao diseret ke boss ngamuk, katanya kemahalan (pdhl kl dia lagi di US ada aja nemenin kk gue ke boss, ga komentar. walopun emang kk gue yg beli).
apalagi mao diajak ke zegna?? no hope lah.

ditengah jalan bokap melipir ke toko hape. eh langsung sumringah loncat2 kek kodok. trus tau2 beli smartphone. pulang.

adek gue cuma bisa ngelus dada n bilang "nanti papa katanya mao bikin di akun tailor -_-;;".

well dari nadanya sih dia sama ga taunya sama gue, dimana dan siapa itu akun tailor
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minimaxi gue justr lg mikir gara2 post nya niamw
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jadi mulai bulan depan gue udah pindah bareng ama cowo gue, sekamar.
nanti pas gue dandan2, kalo ada emak n adek gue, bridesmaid gue sih oke. TAPI kalo ada MIL gue, kaenya gue bisa ngamuk gampar orang deh!
ga usah buka mulut, saking gue di otak udah ga suka ama dia, kalo dia masuk kamar gue pun gue berasa space gue di violate n buat gue ini HARAM hukumnya.

ntar bukannya hepi cantik kayak niamw, tapi gue ngamuk mode.
well gue emang maonya siap tempur mode setiap saat sih kl ada keluarga sana. tapi kalo ada MIL sok akrab deket2 gue ato berani sok ngatur ato komentar, gue bukan siap tempur mode tapi GAMPAR MODE. ga pake kata siap lagi.

lagi mikir jebakan betmen supaya MIL deket2 gue di hari H
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kalo gue dandan di rumah sendiri, cowo gue sekamar ama gue, MIL bisa2 dateng.
cowo gue saranin kita ke hotel aja. bener jg sih bisa persiapan separate room
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dari pengalaman temen gue jg, not a great idea to let the mothers inside the bride room.

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Old Jul 26, 2012, 11:05 AM   #4164
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Hotel lah Cres! No question itu deh. Lo kaga pake jemput2an emang? Singapur kan biasa seru disitunya
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Old Jul 26, 2012, 12:04 PM   #4165
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Cres, MIL lo dimana makeupnya? Hire MUA beda aja, trus persiapan d tmpt yg berbeda, ato persiapannya bikin rada mepet aja jam nya, jd si MIL ga sempet bersilahturahmi ketmpt lo... Biasanya hari-H uda hectic sih (maybe gw yg terlalu padet), jd sbelom jemput2an ga bisa bersilaturahmi gtu...

MIL gw kmrn jadwal makeup jam4 dia dateng jam3.30 pas pegawai2nya baru pd dateng gtu.. Untung si oom MUAnya kaga BT, I manage to maintain his mood paginya itu gw ajakin ngomong soal makeup mulu ama gw bilang gw pengen les makeup ama die... Lgsg sumringah si oom hahahhaha
*MUA gw terkenal moody abies n hasil bagus/jeleknya tergantung moodnya* LOL

Cres, hari-Hnya try to let go things neikkk.. That day supposed to be the happiest day of your life lhoooo... Tp u have 3 different occassion sie yah.. Hahahha... I think the Bali one u'll look gorgeous!!! Karna nothing stop u from being happy and smiling the whole day
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Old Jul 26, 2012, 01:07 PM   #4166
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rain gue bisa aja ke hotel persiapan beda, tapi cowo gue pasti harus ngurusin keluarga nya kan.
itu yg gue masi mikir2. karena sama kae gue, my fiance can't stand her mom/family
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dia jauh lebih prefer ngabisin waktu ama gue.

mao gue bebas gangguan, gampang, gue empanin laki gue ke emaknya aja suru handle.
tp pasti cowo gue nangis gerung2 di depan gue...kasian
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lagi mikir mao murah hati ato enggak.

gue ga mao diganggu ama jemput2an. i dont have mental energy for that. gue tipe bilang ke cowo gue. meet me in the alter. i'll be the one in white! capcus!

niamw, makanya itu lgi mikir gimana strategi 'praktis' urusan persiapan n makeup2an ini. karena makeup artistnya sih yg utama pasti handle gue dong, sisanya asisten2 itu yg di dispatch buat handle keluarga gue.
gue lg mikir posisinya gimana aja enaknya...dan tak lupa supaya jebakan betmen gue yg satu lagi buat membungkam SIL gue jg sebisa mungkin jalan
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let things go? gue sih orangnya panasan. florist biasa aja gue ga masalah. makanan gitu2 doang, ga masalah. ga pake choir cuma pake cd, sok.
tapi gue emang udah empet n ga respek ama MIL gue dan kroco2nya. ga bisa ngapa2in, no resources, tp bacot kagak ketulungan. makanya gue ga mao dia deket2 gue pas persiapan, daripada bawaan gue tinggal mao gorok orang!

gue n cowo gue udah tau emaknya tipe yg bacot banget ngomentarin segalanya, kenapa gak ada komuni lah, kenapa ga pake choir lah (lah cuma 2 lagu di service 45menit, ngapain bayar ratusan dole?), kenapa bunganya cuma gini lah, kenapa gak pasang buffet buat keluarga gue lah, dll dst.
makanya kita purposefully ga mao ajak dia buat gladi resik
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hari H gue mao seminim mungkin ketemu dia, dan kalo ketemu pun sebisanya rame2 ada keluarga gue.
lah emak gue aja mungkin udah berisik (tau kan dress gue sash nya item, sepatu gue item, bouquet gue item! nyokap gue mukanya udah kecewa bgt pas liat foto dress gue ada item2nya dia benernya ngelarang, tp gue lebih keras).

masa mao ditambahin MIL gue yg 3000% lebih parah?

oh ya soal silaturahmi dulu, soalnya gini neik, ntar cowo gue n gue emang udah tinggal bareng pas hari pemberkatan gitu.
kalo cowo gue persiapan bareng gue dirumah, walopun MIL gue udah didandanin di hotel bisa2 dia maksa melipir ke tempat gue karena mao elus2 anak lakinya yg paling kecil ini sebelom naek altar.
dan otomatis kl ke tempat gue, pake masuk2 kamar gue lah (sekamar ama cowo gue).

ini jadwalnya mao gue ketatin emang in some ways, yg gue panggil ke kamar gue cuma tim hore aja kali ya. adek gue dan cewenya (bridesmaid gue
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tapi ya harus dipikirin service flow nya, siapa makeup dimana, brapa asisten...dan ada yg gue pasang di gereja buat ngecek persiapan.

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Old Jul 26, 2012, 01:26 PM   #4167
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Crescent, ho oh. lo ga ada WO yak di sonoh... betul tuh dipisah aja gimana. Lo di hotel, cowo lo di rumah. Bilang ama cowo lo, jangan ketemu sampe di altar (sok2 nge-bule), gw jg bakal begitu sih... dari pagi ga ketemu, ketemunya di altar. Tdnya gw kepikiran untuk suru nyokap n camer make up di hotel aja pdhl mrk udah blg mo ke salon langganan masing2. Ah biarkan sajah dehhhh... jd mereka dandan di salon, dateng ke hotel, gw nya jg udah siap. huehuehuehue...

Ini gw jadi ganti MUA ga ya? -nangis kejerrrrr-
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Old Jul 26, 2012, 01:31 PM   #4168
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fenn & rain: semangaaaat! gw pun punya pengalaman yang sama: lebih niat ngurusin hanimun drpd wedding prep karena tu hanimun kan urusan kita berdua, ga bakal dirempongin sama omongan sana sini
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salza: ntu die...justru gw yg ngingetin cowok gw bahwa udah tinggal h-2 bulan dan banyak yang belom beres, eh cowo gw santai2 aja tuh. baru belakangan dia minta videographer sehingga tanduk gw keluar sedikit
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selain itu mah gw masi rada nyantai. kayaknya gw yg terlalu phlegmatis ya..
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Old Jul 26, 2012, 02:55 PM   #4169
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Rain: si mua itu mnrt u bs ga ubah make upnya sesuai yg u mau? Apa memang style nya dy kek gtu dan u ga suka?
Kl memang styleny uda begtu + ga bs diubah plus lg u beneran ga suka (bukan cm so-so) mending ganti deh..sambil ngelus dada angusin dp
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Drpd nti pas hr h u ga pede, ngerusak mood + senyum jd ga pede..memang sih cm utk sehari aja tapi mnrt gw sayang kl nti abis meritan niy u liat poto/videonya u nyesel liat pic diri sndiri..kl misal niy yg u ga suka tu dekor ato kue ato apalah, plg ngga pas liat poto diri sndiri + suami tetep puas..imo sih yaa.

Cres: bokap uda beli jd jasnya, adik+koko gw uda bikin..tgl nykp aja niy blom decide beli/sewa/bikin..hadehhh
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Old Jul 26, 2012, 05:14 PM   #4170
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@rain + kodokhijau: iyahh, hunimun nyante2 aja.. klo laki gw iseng tny honeymoon mo ngapain, gw jawab aja gw mo tidur, jgn ganggu gw yah cape ngurusin kawinan ga pake WO hahahaha..
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